For
the Chi Squares degrees of freedom=4 (df=rows-1 x columns-1).
The
Findings
A statistically
significant difference
for 19 of the 38 statements was found.
Among the 19 statistically significant differences, 8 found
males to be
more agreeable to the statement than females. The statements were rated
on a
1-to-5 scale, with 1 indicating “strongly disagree” and 5 indicating
“strongly
agree.” Thus, the higher the score, the
more the agreement with the statement.
These 8 statements where males scored statistically
significantly higher
(more agreement) than females included the idea that:
Premarital sex
acceptable for males
(male mean score=3.23, female mean score=2.70)
Oral sex before marriage is
acceptable (male mean score=3.27, female mean score=2.69)
Males should have sexual experience
prior to marriage (male mean score=2.85, female mean score=2.43)
Forcing person to have sex if
spouse
is OK (male mean score=1.59, female
mean
score=1.23)
Marriage should not stop person from
having sex with other people (male mean score=1.79, female mean
score=1.31)
“Topless clubs” are acceptable
places for adult entertainment (male mean score=3.41, female mean
score=2.60)
Condoms interfere with the pleasures
of sex (male mean score=3.11, female mean score=2.21)
Prostitution
should be legalized in all states (male
mean score=2.61, female mean score=1.83)
Females agreed
with 11 statements more
than males, to a statistically significant extent. These ideas included:
When
growing up, parents told me premarital intercourse unacceptable (female
mean
score=3.75, male mean score=2.98)
When
growing up, parents told me any type of sexual behavior before marriage
is
unacceptable (female mean score=3.83, male mean score=2.84)
Sex should only
occur with a person
you love (female mean score=4.30, male mean score=3.55)
Lust and love are two different
emotions (female mean score=4.73, male mean score=4.38)
If I were to have sex, would always
practice safe sex (female mean score=4.54, male mean score=3.80)
Clubs that promote all nude dancing
should not be allowed to exist (female mean score=3.31, male mean
score=2.38)
Magazines such as Playboy are
demeaning to women (female mean score=3.43, male mean score=2.66)
Magazines like Playboy are
pornographic and should not be published (female mean score=3.32, male
mean
score=2.50)
Pornographic material causes males
to become sexually aggressive (female mean score=3.13, male mean
score=2.38)
Masturbation is wrong (female mean
score=2.88, male mean score=2.32)
I would be jealous if my partner had
sexual intercourse with someone else (female mean score=4.76, male mean
score=4.48)
Explaining the Sex
Differences
How are the two
sexes different? The males would seem to
have a
pleasure-oriented viewpoint about sex, in which they should have a lot
of
freedom to do whatever they want. The
females seem to have learned a very conservative approach to sex, in
which many
things are taboo. An important question
is whether the males are as independent and free as their answers seem
to
indicate. Would they really inflict
sexual intercourse upon an unwilling spouse? If yes, perhaps this is
part of
the machismo that the male has learned, and he feels he has a right to
dominate
his spouse and impose his will upon her.
Or, it is possible that the males feel that they should act this
way—either through learning or through biological urges--but would not
necessarily act this way in a real-life relationship. Also, are the
females as
sexually inhibited as their answers imply?
Would they really not have sex outside of love?
In another study (Eisenman & Dantzker, 2004),
we found that our Hispanic female sample was likely to say that if
aroused they
had to have sex. This seems to be a
totally different view than the one presented here, where sex appears
to be
permissible only if in love. Perhaps the Hispanic females feel guilty
about
having sex outside of love or outside of marriage, and want the males
to appear
to take the lead and cause sexual intercourse to happen.
Then, they can say they were swept away, or
that it was the male’s fault. In either
case, if this speculation is correct, they limit their perception of
their own
responsibility or guilt for sexual behavior. Perhaps that is one way
that
people who have guilt about something that they also desire cope with
the
conflicting emotions: by finding a way to do something but to limit
their own
self perceptions of responsibility.
Attitudes
vs. Behavior
It may be that the
attitudes that people
have do not always correspond to their behavior. Behavior
and attitudes are two different
things, and while they may often be in harmony, there is no necessity
that such
is always the case. In some instances, where there is conflicted
feelings/thoughts about something, a person may have an attitude that
one way
is correct, but may also have urges that take them in the opposite
direction. If they act on those urges,
then their attitude and behavior about the event are in conflict with
each
other.
Small
Differences
In all of our
studies with the sex
attitudes scale, we find two things:
1.
consistent sex
differences in
our samples of Hispanic students
2. small differences
between the
Hispanic males and females, even when the items are statistically
significantly
different.
If there were no statistically
significant differences, we would conclude that Hispanics males and
females
think pretty much alike regarding sex attitudes. However
the statistically significant
differences suggest that they may be different in their attitudes. But,
the
differences are not huge at all. They
are often less than 1 scale point difference.
For example, the Hispanic males are not strongly endorsing
forcing your
spouse to have sex even if she does not want to, but they are endorsing
it to a
statistically greater extent than the Hispanic females, with a mean
score of
1.59 for males vs. 1.23 for females, where 5=strongly agree and
1=strongly
disagree. In other words, one could say that both males and females
tend to
disagree with the idea of forcing your spouse to have sex.
However, the difference of 0.36 between males
and females is statistically significant, as the males disagree less
with the
idea than do the females. Perhaps the
differences are minor, and talk of sex differences is basically
unjustified.
Or, perhaps the differences are really
greater than is shown on the sex attitude scale, but is not fully
revealed by a
questionnaire, or at least not by our sex attitude questionnaire. Perhaps in-depth interviews could reveal more
of the sex differences than is shown by getting people to answer a sex
attitudes questionnaire. People will not
always reveal risky behaviors or attitudes on their part.
For example, Hispanics have a high rate of
AIDS, compared to Anglo-Americans, apparently due in part to failure of
many
Hispanics to practice safe sex (Fierros-Gonzalez & Brown, 2002;
Selik,
Castro, & Pappaioanou, 1988). But,
there
might be reluctance on the part of some Hispanics to admit to these
practices,
at least on a general sex attitudes questionnaire, especially if the
questionnaire seemed to be calling for the admission of unacceptable
behaviors. Either the questions on a
questionnaire
have to appear unthreatening to the participant, or some other means of
assessment may be needed, to get at the true attitudes and behaviors.
Cultural
vs. Biological
The results could be explained in both
cultural and/or biological terms. From a biological standpoint, evolutionary
psychology has presented a description of men as favoring sexual
freedom, in
order to have many sexual partners, and thus to send their genes into
future
generations (by impregnating many women; at least this is the
unconscious
wish). Women, on the other hand, get
pregnant, and so cannot keep having sexual relationships which would,
if
pregnancy occurred, send their genes into future generations. Thus, men and women have derived different
sexual strategies, and these are biologically based, trying to ensure
the
survival of their genes. The male strategy favors having many sexual
partners,
especially young, attractive ones, while the female strategy favors
finding a
male who will have money and high status and will protect the woman and
their
offspring (Buss, 1989, 2004; Eisenman, 2003; Palmer & Palmer, 2002;
Shackelford, Buss, & Bennett, 2002).
However, there appear to be cultural
aspects too, to the findings of sex differences. Males
and females are brought up differently
in Hispanic cultures, where the male is typically taught to be a strong
person
and to be in charge of things, while the female learns many inhibitory
lessons
about what it means to be a proper girl/woman. Thus, the sex
differences in sex
attitudes found here could reflect the differential upbringing of
Hispanic
males and females. Of course, it is
quite possible that the results reflect both cultural and biological
realities.
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